We received an email this morning from Peter and Anne letting us know they took a photo of Lexi on her bed in the house this morning. She is a different dog indoors now - far more relaxed. She isn't bothered by the normal domestic noises - vacuum cleaner, washing machine, TV or even the smoke alarm!
Outside is still a different story and sometimes she is very reluctant to go out at all. They are consciously not reacting to any of her skittishness and hopefully as she gains confidence she will begin to realise that there is nothing to fear when she is out with them.
The wound on her back that she came with is healing really well and they are still being very careful to make sure that it continues to do so - putting the Elizabethan collar on whenever they can't watch her.
Lexi and Errie, their Colie X are becoming real friends and happily lay together and give each other licks !
Later we received a futher email letting us know they gave Lexi's ears a good clean last night as they were so dirty. She will feel much better as a result and Anne will do them again shortly to remove any more dirt that has loosened inside and come out.She is so fearful of people and at times she is very difficult to manage. Children seem to cause her the most problem and as they live on an estate and particularly when the weather is nice they just can't avoid them She has had no bad experiences with any while with them but the sound of them playing make
Lexi a bag of nerves. The other day they took her down to their allotment with
Prince and two bones for them to enjoy in the sunshine
Prince quickly got stuck in but Lexi just could not relax and stood tethered the whole time as a couple of young children were playing in a tree about 40 yards away Today they tried her with a bone in the garden and though obviously very interested in it she again would not settle Even when they brought her into the utility room with it she could still hear the neighbour's children nearby and for ages she walked round firmly holding it in her mouth After about half an hour she finally felt safe enough to lay down and enjoy it.
Recently when walking her if people are coming towards her and up behind her she panics and gets behind you and tries to back away The best way to handle this is to stand still and say nothing, give her time to watch what is happening. If she's jumpy say and do nothing and when she has quietened down praise her for being quiet before saying 'walk on'. This way you are praising the good behaviour and not re-enforcing to her that she has a need to fear.
Nervous dogs learn four phases and each must be obtained before the next can proceed. The first is to trust you, the next is that their kennel (your home) is safe, once they feel that they need to be sure their yard or your garden is safe and once they realise that then they need to work out that while they are with you the big outside world is also safe as you are there to look after them. It's a lot to take in and for some dogs its a long slow process.
Being unsure of children is because children often move fast and have higher pitched voices, voices and movement the dogs haven't come across before in kennels, so it is a new experience to take in.
Dogs, like humans learn things or to learn to cope with things in stages, they learn a certain amount then 'plateau' while what they've learnt has time to sink in and be retained, then they learn another batch of things and 'plateau' again while that information is being digested and stored. If you didn't, you would 'burn yourself out'. When teaching children with disabilities as was my son Mark, who was born with Down's Syndrome along with working with nervous dogs or dogs with issues we often don't notice this plateau has been reached until we say to ourselves 'I'm just not getting anywhere' at which point, the plateau is often reaching it's end, and the children or dogs leap forward again before reaching the next plateau. This is what has been happening with Lexi.
Peter and Anne love her to bits and think she is a beautiful dog with the most amazing eyes when she trusts you enough to look into
them. None of her behaviour is a problem to them, and if you worry about it, then they sense it and it makes them worse, so the best thing to do is smile, laugh and think it's all so cute. Personally I find it very satisfying when a dog like
Lester,
Ben,
Ted or Lexi finally bonds with you because when they do they are worth their weight in gold!
16th June 2011
We received an email today from Peter and Anne letting us know that Lexi in the past couple of days has been much better while in the garden and on their walks.
22nd June 2011
We received an email today from Peter and Anne letting us know that for the first time Lexi and
Prince have both been on the sofa together and are obviously quite happy about it!
There have been one or two firsts in the last few days This morning
Lexi was playing happily with a tennis ball - chasing after it when Anne
rolled it along the floor and pouncing on it and throwing it in the
air - a lovely sight !
After seeming to go backwards for a while she seems to have gained confidence and has a different gait about her when walking outdoors. Since walking her next to
Prince who is much older and just plods along instead of Celt who is younger and more bouncy she is enjoying being outside more.
She now stops and sniffs, the delights of which
Prince has introduced
her to, and a thing she was never able to relax enough to do before. Although still easily frightened by some things she seems to find her walks much more
enjoyable.
The other day while they were out walking a whole hoard of cyclists
taking part in some event came up the hill on the other side of the
road as they came down.
One cyclist is usually enough to spook her but she just stood there
and watched in amazement as they all whooshed by them - as Peter and Anne did watching her !!!
4th August 2011
Peter was telling me today that since all the children broke up from school for the summer Lexi has gone back a step. She is really unsure of their shouting, playing and running around, so much so some days she doesn't want to go for a walk and is happy to stay in the house and garden. However, on these occasions they walk her with
Prince and once she's through the garden gate she settles - it's just going through the gate she doesn't like when there are children around.
5th September 2011
This morning Lexi went to her new home where we hope she will have a long and happy life with her new family that includes Billy the greyhound.
8th September 2011
We received an email today from Lexi's new owners letting us know how Lexi has settled in, She's been playing in the garden with Billy today and she makes everyone laugh when she wags her tail. They say she is going to enjoy the rest of her life with them and she's not coming back to us (sorry!). She is eating her food well and some of Billy's, but he doesn't seem to mind, and she's met her Gran and Grandad and they love her.
4th October 2011
Another email arrived today letting us know that Lexi is really coming out of her shell now, loves playing with Billy and her owner's mum, dad and brother. She gets lots of cuddles from the friends and family, and loves pinching Billy's toys. She loves going for walks with them and has been out for lunch with their family where she was very good - the cafe staff brought Lexi and Billy a plate of sausages!!
2nd November 2011
We received a surprise visit this morning from Lexi, her new owners and Billy the greyhound she lives with. Didn't they both look smart in their bright red coats and Lexi looked so well and relaxed. It was just wonderful to see her like this, a far cry from the nervous little girl who first arrived.
22nd December 2011
Received an email today wishing us a merry Christmas and to let us know Billy and Lexi have already got 5 christmas presents each under the tree!